4. When your child reads a word incorrectly and it changes the meaning, ask, "Does that make sense?"

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Specific and honest praises you use
a. "you figured it out yourself!"
b. "you read that very smoothly."
c. "You knew that word didn't make sense and you fixed it on your own."
d. "You used these strategies (name specific strategies you noticed）."

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心有戚戚焉！.

to study .

好贴，送花了！最好翻成中文，以便更广泛传播.

学习一下，回去教育孩子.

仔细看完，真是太好了，女儿已经小2了，从现在开始吧，谢谢.

great. let's start reading..

做起来很难呀!.

妈妈们的英语看来要达到一定水平才行，否则自己都说英语都有困难啊！！.

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大家把这个帖子找出来，我仔细又读了一遍，非常感谢lz，正是不二前辈使我再一次的认识到阅读的重要，我坚持了大半年每次从图书馆借来英文书，孩子也不看，但我还是坚持，前两天孩子跟我说：我现在有点喜欢英文阅读了，你给我点英文书，昨晚我们第一次主动一起读了ladybird的 key word书的2a，孩子自己读出了三分之二，我读了一点，一边读，孩子一边做着书中的动作，开心的要命，我觉得这真是个好的开端，在这分享下我的快乐，谢谢lz了！.

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翻出来一个不二前辈的老帖，如获至宝，仔细阅读中~.

好贴！学习中！.

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Fantastic.Thanks a lot..

加上自己的蹩脚注释以好理解：
       As parents you are your child's most influential teacher with an important part to play in helping your child learn to read.
Below are some suggestions on how you can help to make this a positive experince.父母是孩子最好的老师
     1. Choose a quiet time
      Set aside a quiet time with no distractions. Ten to fifteen minutes is usually long enough.
选择安静容易集中精力的时间哪怕只有10分钟（记得大学英语精读第一册第一课还提到要有容易集中注意力不受干扰
的地点）
    2. Make reading enjoyable
     Make reading an enjoyable experince. Sit with your child. Try not to pressurise if he or she is reluctant. If your child loses interest then do something else.
和孩子一起享受读书学习的乐趣，不强迫孩子去进行没有兴趣的学习
     3. Maintain the flow
     If your child mispronounces a word do not interrupt immediately. Instead allow opportunity for self-correction. It is better to tell a child some unknown words to maintain the flow rather than insisting on trying to build them all up from the sounds of the letters. If your child does try to "sound out" words, encourage the use of letter sounds(phonics) rather than "alphabet names".
保持连贯性，不打断孩子，最好让孩子有机会自己发现错误，如果孩子试着读一个单词，鼓励他用字母发音规则读而不是简单单词的读音（理解是用拼读法或音标读音规律读或记忆单词）
     4. Be positive
     If your child says something nearly right to start with. That is fine. Don't say "No. That's wrong," but "Let's read it together" and point to the words as you say them. Boost your child's confidence with constant praise for even the smallest achievement.
抓住每个哪怕很微小的成绩鼓励孩子，建立和保持孩子的自信心(这点孩子老公和外婆做的不好，尤其外婆她的传统的老式方法，竟然有时说孩子笨，强迫孩子学，还常指责我太惯孩子）
     5. Success is the key
     Parents anxious for a child to progress can mistakenly give a child a book that is too difficult. This can have the opposite effect to the one they are wanting. It is better to keep to easier books until your child has built up his confidence. Struggling with a book with many unknown words is pointless. Flow is lost, text cannot be understood and children can easily become reluctant readers.
不要操之过急，一下给太难读的书，让孩子失去阅读的兴趣，应从简单的开始树立孩子的自信心。
   6. Change books
    Encourage your child to change their reading books regularly.
有规律的变化读的书。
    7. Regular practice  
    Try to read with your child on most days, remember "little and often" is best.
经常和孩子一起阅读，记住少而频繁。
    8. Communicate
    Try to communicate regularly in the reading diary about your child with positive comments. Your child will then know that you are interested in their progress and that you value reading.
尽量多和孩子交流他的读书心得，孩子会觉得你很在意他的进步， 很重视阅读。
    9. Talk about books
       There is more to being a good reader than just being able to read the words accurately. Just as important is being able to understand what has been read. Always talk to your child about the book; about the pictures; the characters, how they think the story will end, their favourite part, you will then be able to see how well they have understood and you will help them to develop good comprehension skills.
了解书的内容比精确的读出每个词更重要，和你的孩子探讨谈论书的内容，插图，主人公，孩子是咋想故事结局的，最喜欢的部分是哪里。你会了解孩子是怎样理解故事的并帮助孩子培养阅读理解的技巧。.

10. Variety is important
   Remember children need to experince a variety of reading materials eg. picture books, hard backs, comics, magazines, poems, and information books.
变化书的种类很重要。记住孩子需要阅读各种体裁的书：图画书、 精装书 、漫画书、 杂志、 资料书.......

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6. Change books
    Encourage your child to change their reading books regularly.
有规律的变化读的书。

不知道这个有规律是指什么呢.

比如每周2,4换书，或者每月3,13,23日换书。.

又见不二的指导，开心！.

不好意思再追问一句，换书的意识是不是引导他看不同种类的书吗？.

不仅仅是。
换书的意识
1.有助于养成阅读的良好习惯。2.学会挑选自己感兴趣的书。3.增加阅读的兴趣。4.方便记录孩子的阅读量（以年为单位）。.

再再追问，嘿嘿，怎样引导孩子学会挑选自己感兴趣的书呢？我们基本是我给他什么，他开始看，看了一点不喜欢的话就换。好像还没有特别主动的方法去找自己喜欢的书。.

要让他自己看每本书的封面和封底，有简介的话，先看简介。如果觉得不是自己感兴趣的书，可以放一边，先看感兴趣的。.

好贴！送花！

惭愧的是自己的英语太有限了。教不出好的。请教可以借助原版卡通片来教孩子正宗的英文吗？不二老师推荐什么片子呢？.

学习了。
家中二宝今年二年级，麻烦推荐一些适宜的英文读物，谢谢！.

My son is 6 years old. He is ok to read English story book with me. But he does't like communicating in English. Every time, when I talk to him in English, he will immdiately stop me" NO ENGLISH". Even it's so simple word as " good morning".

What I could do ? Feell so confused....

如果英语是那么容易学到，就不会有那么多讨论了。能够读一些故事和能够自由组织语言还是有一定差距的。等你的孩子的阅读量扩大到每年读50本章节书，这时候才会看到他的全方位的英语能力提高。
在目前阶段，是看不到很大的效果的。除非这个孩子的语言能力非常强。另外，他的母语程度有时候也会影响他的英语进步。.

求推荐好的英语绘本.

学习中.

请教高手，如何让英语不好的家长辅导孩子的英语？.

好贴。翻出来让大家看看.